friendly reminder for all my followers
- make sure you drink lots of water to keep you feeling cute
- you don’t need to keep unhealthy people in your life if they’re stopping you from being cute
- it’s okay to say no to people or things that aren’t cute
- do what makes you happy and what makes you feel cute
- nothing will ever love you more than your body so make sure you love it back u lil cutie
there’s a lot of unspoken pressure to keep liking the things you used to like and to keep dressing the way you’ve always dressed and to never question what you believe in and basically “be yourself” has slowly morphed into “be what everyone knows you as” but trust me when i say if you just give it up and simply make decisions and take actions based purely on what would make you happy, you’ll gain a very comforting sense of self peace
IF YOUR BOYFRIEND MAKES JOKES ABOUT YOUR BODY, WEIGHT, EATING DISORDER, RECOVERY, ETC, MAKE A JOKE ABOUT HOW HE’S SINGLE AND THEN WALK OUT THE DOOR BECAUSE THAT IS SOME FUCKEN BULLSHIT AND YOU ARE A BAD BITCH WHO DESERVES BETTER OK OK
I always hear “It’s okay not to be okay” and for a while I needed to hear that, but there was something else I needed to hear but didn’t realize until today. I was struggling with guilt about moving on and leaving the past behind and healing myself.
My therapist said this:
"It’s okay to be okay. It is okay to move on. It is okay to heal. It is okay to be happy. It is okay to be alright. You are not deserting anyone. You are not abandoning the people still in the dark place. You are taking care of yourself and there is NOTHING wrong with that."
I hope you found more reasons to smile today than you did yesterday. I hope you had a wonderful sleep, saw a good movie, ate your favorite meal, had great conversations, or did something new and exciting. I hope today was a better day than yesterday and may tomorrow be even better.